http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/2009/07/13/assertiveness-do-you-have-it/ Daily thoughts and comments on our life...boring as it may be! Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:43:57 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/2009/07/13/assertiveness-do-you-have-it/#comment-861 Emily Fri, 17 Jul 2009 15:21:15 +0000 http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/?p=1730#comment-861 Being assertive does not have to lead to conflict. Being assertive is the same thing as speaking your opinion or standing up for yourself and there is nothing wrong with that. You can do it in a non-conflict way. My weakness is that I am too assertive and sometimes I think people view me as being a b*@ch. There's really a fine line. Being assertive does not have to lead to conflict. Being assertive is the same thing as speaking your opinion or standing up for yourself and there is nothing wrong with that. You can do it in a non-conflict way. My weakness is that I am too assertive and sometimes I think people view me as being a b*@ch. There’s really a fine line.

]]> http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/2009/07/13/assertiveness-do-you-have-it/#comment-857 Cindy Wed, 15 Jul 2009 16:19:36 +0000 http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/?p=1730#comment-857 Fake it. I am not kidding, the moments when my anxiety is at it's highest, I completely fake it. You'll get the hang of it, because you have the smarts to back it up. Good Luck! Fake it. I am not kidding, the moments when my anxiety is at it’s highest, I completely fake it. You’ll get the hang of it, because you have the smarts to back it up. Good Luck!

]]> http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/2009/07/13/assertiveness-do-you-have-it/#comment-856 Nick Wed, 15 Jul 2009 13:47:50 +0000 http://oswaldadventures.wordpress.com/?p=1730#comment-856 I think you nailed it right on the head. It is because of your lack of confrontation and dislike of conflict. Learn to be smart and listen...but also be smart and take action. My weakness is my "action" turns into @$$holiness.... I think you nailed it right on the head. It is because of your lack of confrontation and dislike of conflict. Learn to be smart and listen…but also be smart and take action. My weakness is my “action” turns into @$$holiness….

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