I’ve had the same suit for about 3+ years and have been on the hunt for a new swimsuit all summer. The catch, I REFUSE to spend upwards of $100 and over! I’m a big fan of the tankini because it has the versatility of the two piece without having to show everything off like you do in a bikini. I’ve hunted the sale racks and on occasion have found suitable tops, but then I go to search for a bottom…nothing! Either nothing matches or it isn’t the right size.
Some day I’ll find my new suit at the right price.
Is assertiveness something you are born with or is it a skill you aquire throughout your life? I’m pretty sure it’s something you learn…either way, though, I don’t have it and I really want some. I’m trying to be more assertive, but sometimes I feel like I’ve painted myself into a corner because of my lack of assertiveness. I feel like I’m a really outgoing person, so why is this one thing so hard. Is it because of my dislike for confrontation and conflict that my lack of assertiveness stems from? Can I get out of the corner once I’ve painted myself into it?!?